Marriage is considered to be a bond of seven births. After marriage, this relationship has to be maintained with the support of trust and love. Sometimes it seems difficult to maintain this relationship which is more delicate than glass. The youth running in the race of modernity has started ignoring the importance of this bond. For him, the relationship of marriage has become a joke. It has also been seen that the support of lies is being taken to establish this relationship.

Recently my neighbor arranged the marriage of his son by telling that he is a government officer. When we started living in his neighborhood, we also got the same information that he is on some big position. In the house where he married his son, his daughter was already working in a high position in the government department. After the marriage, the bride came to know that her husband was not a high position but a minor clerk. The daughter-in-law who came home is now unable to understand what to do. At the end of the worship of Gangaur, she returned to her in-laws house with her husband. In the evening she came to my wife with sweets in her hands. He told all this in conversation. She had feelings of disrespect towards her husband and in-laws. He told that he has asked his parents to get him a divorce. But other relatives of the house told his parents to accept it as destiny. She says that now the feeling of mistrust towards her in-laws and husband has settled in her mind. He does not believe any of his words, due to which an atmosphere of discord has started in the house. Neither does she feel attached to her husband, nor does she have a sense of respect for him. There is a strange strain in their relationship. I can’t carry this relation for life. If the parents did not cooperate, then now I will spend my life by taking my own decision at my own level.

There are not one but many such examples, where boys or girls tell lies for marriage, which affects their lives. This is wrong. Relationships made with the help of lies only give sorrow. Look at the events mentioned above, the marriage has already happened, we have to live in the in-laws house under compulsion. She may not have taken divorce yet due to social pressure, but due to a lie her in-laws have fallen in their eyes. Till when will this continue to happen?

both sides make mistakes
Lies are resorted to by both the parties while establishing a matrimonial relationship. Then whether it is a small lie or a big lie, it is always a lie. Many reasons work behind this too-like- sometimes the groom’s side gives wrong information due to the expectation of a good girl and more dowry, and sometimes the bride’s side does this after seeing a good house-groom. At that time the thought does not arise in their mind that what will happen later when the truth will come out.
At the time of marriage relations, some such lies are usually told which are now starting to seem normal. For example, underestimating the age of a boy or a girl, exaggerating the qualities of a girl, telling two or three times the education, job or earnings of a boy, hiding the diseases of boys and girls, their habits, behavior giving false information about In these matters, today’s mediators i.e. marriage bureau people also have an important role.

Many a times the middlemen or matrimonial agents or so-called agencies get the relationship done by giving false-true promises and wrong information in spite of the bride’s or bride’s parents telling all the facts correctly in the greed of their huge commission. Are. Later, when the truth comes to the fore, the bride and groom keep on fighting. There is tension between husband and wife and many times the matter reaches the court, which results in divorce. In fact, after marriage, when the affected party comes to know about the lie through a relative or other means, he feels cheated and becomes aggressive. As a result, the family gets disintegrated due to quarrels, relations get broken.

Another important role is that of the Internet. In the life full of running, at present no one has enough time to collect the correct information about the bride and groom, that’s why the mutual relations are ending. Now most of the marriages are happening through internet, where wrong information is given in the resume. Like in the past, there is no expansion of the family, the family has been reduced to husband, wife and two children. In such a situation, it is also becoming difficult to get the family investigation done for marriage. Whether it is a newspaper advertisement or a marriage being done through the internet, it is a bit difficult to get the right investigation done in both the cases. It should be kept in mind that it is a question of two lives and the generation after that, do not be in a hurry to decide relationships until the information about the other side is completely correct. Lest it happen that your haste makes you regret for the rest of your life.

Many times, despite knowing the shortcomings, the parents fix the marriage of the children in the thought that maybe everything will be fine after the marriage. But this does not happen. If your son or daughter wants to marry the person of their choice, then accept them. If you get them married somewhere else by your choice or stubbornness, then it is sure that two lives and two families will be ruined. Never make this mistake. Now time has changed. The perception of caste, high and low has started changing.

Many lives are ruined by one lie. Both sides should exchange information on what is right. After all, if they agree, then the relationship should be confirmed. Once marriage happens, then everything will be fine, thinking that the result of the relations decided by making false-true things is never good. Sometimes boys or girls take steps like suicide. Therefore, it is prudent to state the facts correctly.

No one is perfect, everyone has some or the other shortcomings, if those shortcomings are put in front in the right way, then probably no such step will be taken which will give you sorrow for life. Relationships in which honesty, frankness and trust are the foundation, only those marital relationships are beautiful. There is neither sweetness nor stability in relationships built on the foundation of lies. The end of such relationships is always sad.

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